Conservative Jews’ gay wedding rules mostly met with a shrug

WASHINGTON — The Conservative Jewish movement established guidelines last week for the marriage of gay and lesbian couples. The reaction … Continued

WASHINGTON — The Conservative Jewish movement established guidelines last week for the marriage of gay and lesbian couples. The reaction so far? Hard to find.

Asked if there had been any pushback, Rabbi Julie Schonfeld, executive vice president of the movement’s Rabbinical Assembly, said “just the opposite.”

“There is a tremendous sense of appreciation, of celebration,” said Schonfeld. “The guidance is considered thoughtful and helpful to do what it was intended to do … to bring sanctity between people who want to build a Jewish home.”

Conservative Judaism, which sits between the more liberal Reform and the more traditional Orthodox, lifted the ban on the ordination of gay rabbis in 2006.

As for same-sex marriages, it has been 12 years since the Reform movement of Judaism — the largest within the United States — gave rabbis the right to perform same-sex marriages. For years, though, some Conservative rabbis have also been performing these marriages.

The new guidelines outline two possible marriage ceremonies for same-sex couples, which clergy are free to adapt. The guidelines passed the Rabbinical Assembly’s Committee on Jewish Law and Standards by a 13-0 vote, with one abstention.

Schonfeld said there are rabbis within the Conservative movement who do not want to perform same-sex marriages. It should be clear, she said, that they don’t have to.

“We are a big-tent movement,” she said. “There remain people for whom this is not what they understand Jewish law to dictate. They don’t have an obligation.”

Rabbi Rick Jacobs, leader of the Reform movement in the U.S. and Canada, applauded the Conservatives’ move.

“We have been there for quite a while,” he said of the approval of same-sex marriage rites. “We think it’s great for the Jewish people, and it’s a hugely important move for everyone in non-Orthodox Judaism.”

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  • Abbushuki

    With good reason there’s not much of a reaction. The Conservative movement per their own data, lost 14% of their membership in the last decade with no let-up in sight. The majority of their new rabbis are now women who support their own agendas. As the main supporters of the Conservative moment, now retired, die out, there are simply not enough replacements. The joy of the moment is like a party balloon that eventually deflates. That’s all they need: more infertile couples. Their current fertility rate is 0.9% just a fraction of what they need to replace themselves. That’s why no one cares how they re-arrange their deck furniture… they ship is sinking anyway.

  • wahela712

    I am a Protestant granny in small town Iowa. And i think it is wonderful that the Jewish Religion is showing far more tolerance and grace than the Evangelicals that are trying to run this country. I think that the Jewish community is far luckier than they realize. the world is changing and we have to change with it. I have several gay married friends, and they have had such a bad time with the Evangelicals and Prop H8, that they are moving to France (one is a French Citizen). I salute your Community for their tolerance and helpfulness for two people loving each other and wanting to be married. thank you.

  • SJames6621

    thank you. Most jews know what it is to be discriminated against and the the gays of Europe shared that madman catholic hitlers ovens with the Jews (and ohers)

    discrimination anywhere is discrimination everywhere.